I am tired of being the bad guy all the time. I am tired of people excluding me. I realize that everyone has their thing. Everyone has stuff on their plates. A lot of people around me have a lot of stuff on their plates right now, and I am supportive of that. I would like to point out that a lot of those same people were not supportive of me when I had a lot of stuff on my plate.
When the question to include me is posed, then why is it so hard to include me???? I know, because you must hate me. How rude is it when it is pointed out to you that some of a class of people are included and others are not and the reaction is to exclude all people of that class rather than include everyone. To clarify, you are sending, let's say an email to a group of friends and you include some of the spouses of the friends and when one of the friends, Mark, says hey can you include my wife too, because I see you have Fred's wife on the list and your reaction is to exclude Fred's wife rather than include Mark's wife. Well, let me see, how do I say this, it sends a message loud and clear that you would rather exclude Fred's wife than include Mark's wife, because including Mark's wife is the most unpalatable thing in the whole world.
You know what I have to say to YOU about that:
F to the U to the C to the K to the Y to the O to the U... Yup that is right, and the horse you rode in on.